Real dates. Beautiful places.

Don't just swipe.Ask me out nicely.

Candlelight, a table for two, and someone who made the effort. On AMON you don't swipe. You ask someone out properly, to a beautiful dinner or a night on the water, and they give you a real answer.

Become a founding member Coming soon to iPhone and Android

Opening first in Bangkok · Singapore · Kuala Lumpur

How it works

One beautiful invitation beats a hundred matches.

Anyone can ask and anyone can be asked. Every conversation on AMON starts with a date for two.

Make the ask

Choose a restaurant from our list, pick a night, and write a few honest lines about why you'd like to meet. Add "My treat" if you're inviting.

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They decide

They see who you are, that you're verified, and exactly where and when. They say yes, suggest another night, or say no thank you. Either way you know where you stand.

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Dinner for two

Your chat opens once they say yes, so you can sort out the details. Then it's the two of you at a table worth the evening.

The evenings

Go out on a real date. Make it a gorgeous one.

Every invitation on AMON is to somewhere worth getting dressed for. This is the kind of night we mean.

A yacht lit up on the water at sunset — On the waterDinner cruise at sunset

A chef's hands preparing sushi at the counter — Chef's counterTen courses, two seats

A reserved table for two with city lights behind it — ReservedA table by the window

Champagne being poured into two glasses in low light — Second dateChampagne on deck

Boats in a harbour at dusk with the city lights coming on — After dinnerA walk by the harbour

Where to go

Low lights, good wine, and the occasional night at sea.

AMON members choose from a short list of the finest restaurants in Bangkok, Singapore and Kuala Lumpur, plus a few rare evenings for when dinner isn't enough: on the river, out on the water, or high above the city.

ThailandBangkok

City-stateSingapore

MalaysiaKuala Lumpur

Candlelight and wine glasses on a dinner table

Restaurant · Bangkok

The tasting menu

Ten courses, matched wines, and a reason to keep talking between every plate.

3 hrs · smart · table for two

Restaurant · Kuala Lumpur

Omakase for two

Two seats at the counter and the chef deciding everything. You only have to enjoy it.

2 hrs · smart casual · table for two

A rooftop restaurant at night with the city behind it

Restaurant · Singapore

Dinner with a view

A table high above Marina Bay as the skyline lights up. Ask for the window.

2.5 hrs · dressy · table for two

Restaurant · Kuala Lumpur

The long lunch

A white tablecloth, a bottle of something good and nowhere to be until evening.

3 hrs · smart casual · weekends

Experience · Bangkok

Sunset dinner cruise

Dinner on deck along the Chao Phraya as the sun goes down and the temples light up. A first date neither of you will forget.

3 hrs · dressy · evenings

Experience · Singapore

Private yacht charter

A skipper, champagne on ice and the water off Sentosa to yourselves. For a second date that means it.

4 hrs · relaxed · on request

You're in control

Choose who gets to ask you.

Nobody can message you until you've said yes to a dinner, and you decide who's allowed to send one. The same rules apply to every member.

Only verified members can askPhoto and ID checks before anyone can send an invitation.

Your filters, your callAge, distance and how many invitations you want each week.

Pause any timeTake a week off and nobody can send you anything.

Who can ask me out

Only these people can send you an invitation

Verified only

Age range

Members outside this range can't ask

26 to 38

Within

How far the restaurant can be

15 km

First dates in public

Always on for everyone

Invitations per week

Keep it to the best few

Up to 5

Pause invitations

Nobody can ask while paused

When you ask

Lead with a plan.

People on AMON are tired of guessing what someone wants. A clear invitation to a great table, from a verified member, stands out straight away.

Everyone is approachableNo waiting for a match. If you're within someone's settings, you can invite them to dinner.

A curated list of restaurantsThe best tables in Bangkok, Singapore and Kuala Lumpur, plus dinner cruises and charters for special nights.

A clear answerYes, another night, or no thank you. Nobody gets ghosted on AMON.

Concierge bookingPremium members get the table, the time and the reminder handled for them.

The rules

What "nicely" means here.

Every member agrees to these before they can send or accept an invitation.

Real people only

Every member passes a photo and ID check. Profiles that don't match get removed.

Public places first

First dates happen at restaurants and venues on our list. No home addresses, no hotel rooms.

No arrangements

No allowances, no gifts in exchange for company, no talk about money. Saying "my treat" is a kind gesture, nothing more.

A no is a no

After a no thank you, that person can't ask you again. Repeat asks lead to suspension.

Respect in every message

Rude, pushy or explicit messages are removed and the member is suspended.

Report in one tap

Block or report anyone from any screen. A real person reviews every report.

Membership

Free to join. Premium when you mean it.

AMON is a members' club with the same rules and the same prices for everyone. Founding members join before the public launch and keep their founding rate.

Free to join

Member

Verified profile and badge
Receive and answer invitations
Send one invitation a week
Full control over who can ask you
Every safety feature

Founding rate at launch

Premium

Up to ten invitations a week
Your invitations shown first
The full list of top restaurants, cruises and charters
Concierge booking and reminders
See who's viewed your profile

Founding pricing will be announced before launch.

AMON is for adults 20 and over. Memberships can be cancelled at any time.

Founding members

Join the founding list

Dinner for two at Bangkok's best tables. Founding members get in first.